Comments About Others’ Bodies Is Unacceptable

George Burstan
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Comments About Others' Bodies Is Unacceptable

The culture of commenting on people’s bodies and appearances has become deeply ingrained in our society, and Galen Emanuele has observed its damaging effects firsthand. After analyzing countless workplace interactions and social dynamics, Galen can definitively state that there’s absolutely no place for body commentary in professional or personal settings.

The rule is remarkably simple: make zero comments about other people’s bodies. Period. While this might seem extreme to some, his experience shows this approach is the only way to maintain respect and dignity in our interactions.

The Hidden Impact of Body Commentary

Body commentary, whether positive or negative, creates an environment of judgment and scrutiny. When we make remarks about someone’s weight loss, weight gain, pregnancy status, or appearance, we’re crossing a boundary that should remain untouched. These comments, regardless of intention, can trigger stress, anxiety, and self-consciousness in recipients.

Whether somebody is fat or they’re skinny or they’ve lost weight or they’ve gained weight or they’re pregnant or they’re ugly or they’re attracted or whatever… Those are internal thoughts.

Let’s break down why this zero-tolerance policy on body commentary matters:

  • It eliminates workplace tension and potential harassment issues
  • It prevents unintended emotional harm to colleagues and friends
  • It maintains professional boundaries
  • It focuses interactions on meaningful aspects like work quality and character

The Internal vs. External Thought Process

We must acknowledge a fundamental truth: humans naturally form opinions about appearances. However, the critical distinction lies in managing these thoughts. I advocate for a clear separation between internal thoughts and external expressions.

Internal thoughts about appearances are natural and inevitable. External expression of these thoughts is unnecessary and potentially harmful. This distinction helps maintain professional and personal relationships while avoiding unnecessary conflict.

Professional Impact and Workplace Dynamics

In professional settings, body commentary can create hostile work environments and lead to decreased productivity. His analysis shows that workplaces that actively discourage body commentary report higher employee satisfaction and better team dynamics.

Consider these workplace scenarios where body commentary should be avoided:

  1. Casual office conversations
  2. Performance reviews
  3. Team meetings
  4. Social events with colleagues
  5. Client interactions

The Celebrity Exception Myth

Some argue that public figures or celebrities are fair game for body commentary. I strongly disagree. Celebrity status doesn’t negate human dignity or the right to exist without constant physical scrutiny. The same rules should apply whether discussing a coworker or a famous person.

Creating Positive Change

To implement this zero-commentary policy effectively, I suggest starting with self-awareness. When you catch yourself about to make a body-related comment, pause and redirect. Focus conversations on actions, achievements, and character instead of physical appearances.

The solution is straightforward: if a comment involves someone else’s body, don’t say it. This simple rule eliminates potential harm and creates space for more meaningful interactions.


Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What if someone asks for my opinion about their appearance?

Even when directly asked, exercise caution. Redirect the conversation to focus on health, well-being, or other non-physical attributes. If pressed, keep responses general and avoid specific body commentary.

Q: How should I respond when others make body comments?

Politely but firmly redirect the conversation. You might say, “I prefer to focus on other topics” or “Let’s discuss their work/achievements instead.” This helps establish and maintain healthy boundaries.

Q: Does this rule apply to compliments too?

Yes, even positive comments about bodies can make people uncomfortable or perpetuate appearance-focused culture. Instead, compliment people on their skills, accomplishments, or character traits.

 

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