The 6 most toxic in-laws — and how to handle them
Mothers-in-laws may get the bad rap, but many DILs, SILs and other mothers- and fathers-in-law can be no barrel of laughs either.
November 13, 2019
Communication
The things you hear when you show up early
I haven’t seen many advantages to my current age, but the other night gave me a new perspective.
October 17, 2019
Should you get involved when your kids and grandkids aren’t getting along?
Being a grandparent comes with perks — and also responsibilities. Here are best practicies if you want to step in during a family dispute.
August 23, 2019
My beloved ex-children
All those years ago when he grew apart from me, I forgot that I was supposed to be doing the same
August 12, 2019
What it’s like being 62 and having a 6-year-old daughter
Having a child later in life is not for the faint of heart—or knees
July 8, 2019
‘Retire? What in the world would I do all day?’
A rehearsal for retirement shows it's not for everyone
June 4, 2019
Get over it, already: How to resolve lifelong sibling rivalry
Adult sibling rivalry is common. If you're ready to heal the relationship with your sibs, here are some ways to diffuse the tension.
March 8, 2019
The touching story of how two sisters found each other after 60 years
It all happened because of a good old-fashioned letter
January 17, 2019
7 hallmarks of a manipulative friend
If it feels like you’re always giving—and she's always taking—read this.
October 14, 2015
How to handle a passive-aggressive daughter-in-law
She invites you to family events at the last minute, and leaves to do "important errands" whenever you come over. If this sounds familiar, here's how to deal.
September 25, 2015
How to manage your expectations as a grandparent
Is it bad to have expectations for family relationships? It is if you expect to be in charge.
September 14, 2015
6 habits that hurt your relationship with your kids
When it comes to our grown kids, we may have the best of intentions, but sometimes our actions can backfire
April 5, 2015
When an apology isn’t enough
Situations when you need to bite your tongue and say "sorry," plus what your daughter-in-law really wants from you.
November 6, 2014
How to handle a difficult daughter-in-law
You think she’s controlling. She thinks you’re a buttinsky. Can you possibly find a way to connect to your DIL when you rarely agree on anything?
September 25, 2014
How to reveal a family secret
Most families have a few skeletons in the closet. Here's how to know if you should divulge yours—plus the least painful ways to do it.
July 8, 2014
How to handle a daughter-in-law who’s a bully
How to stick up for yourself without losing your relationship with your grandkids.
June 5, 2014
6 family behaviors that are totally dysfunctional
It’s ok if your picture perfect family suffers occasional dysfunction, but prepare yourself to deal with it productively.
January 16, 2014
Do maternal grandmothers really have it better?
Columnist Barbara Graham attempts to answer the eternal question
June 18, 2013
Your son-in-law survival guide
Don't like the way your son-in-law treats your daughter? Just can warm up to him? Read on for 5 tips to help you create a better mother in law son in law relationship —and even like each other.
March 12, 2013